Dear Del,
How do you get over someone you know you can never have But Can’t Live without?
Dear Heather,
You cry a lot, go out with friends and try to meet someone else. If you really decide you can’t live without him then I guess you’ll have to kill yourself which I certainly don’t recommend. There is more than one person out there for all of us and time is the greatest healer. Don’t bury yourself in self-pity.
Sincerely,
Del
Dear Del,
I am married and no longer in love with my husband. There is another man I have known since I was 17 ( 53 currently), he has be in and out of my life for all theses years. My child is away at college and I want to leave my husband and be with the other guy. My husband is a good person and does not deserve to be hurt but I am in love with the other guy. HELP
Dear Jackie,
I think you should do what you want but you say “be with the other guy” - do you want to marry him? Will he marry you? And if he won’t, will you still want to divorce your “good” husband? It’s not fair to stay with someone you no longer love. People are hurt in life but it is worth your happiness to stay with him? These are questions you must ask yourself.
Sincerely,
Del