Dear Del,
I have been in a relationship for 3 years now with a man who i am in love with. I have alwasy had suspissions about his lifestyle. We have recently had discussions about things he has done in his past. He has been a male escort to men and women. He has had a sugar daddy. He has curiousities about tran sexuals. He now has a stable job but is not making enough money to make ends meet. I am worried that he is going to fall back into his previous lifestyle wince it is a very easy way to make money. I am also worried about stds and if i would be comfortable having children. If we were to get divorced he said he would not be against being in a relationship with a transexual. I would not be ok with my kids being around someone like that. I know that isnt politically correct but i wouldn’t. I am also from the deep south and according to him am the only one other than the participating parties that know about his previous lifestyle. Should i be worried not sure whether to remain in this relationship i do love him but i am concerned about the impact of his curiousities onto me. are all men like this?
Dear K,
No all men are not like your man! I don’t understand how you can be in love with this man and be with him for 3 years! It’s hard for me to tell you what to do if you cannot see for yourself that you should get rid of him. If you don’t then I seriously suggest you get professional help and find out what attracts you to this kind of person.
Sincerely,
Del