Del,
Hi I’m Nicole I’m 23 years old and have or actually was up until two weeks ago in a relationship with Geran who is 24 (and an alcoholic) for 7 years. We have a 3 year old together too. Anyways 2 weeks ago I kissed a mutual friend of ours at a party Geran and I were at. Well Geran found out from his best friend who say it. They problem is Geran has been in trouble and on probation for basically the 7 years we were together and I forgave him and supported him through everything and now I made a mistake and he took off. I think he just wants to be free to go out and party but hesays he doesnt WANT to be single or move out or not see our son every day he just cant stand to be around me right now and that he loves me andmaybe we can get together somewhere down the road. Will he come back home? And does he really even love me? What do I do?
Dear Nicole,
Well, first you say he took off, then you say he doesn’t want to move out and then you say he says maybe you can get together down the road. This is very confusing to me as to whether he is still living with you not, but regardless of any of this, my advice is good riddance to such a loser!!! Just get your own place and move on. He can have visitation rights but don’t live with him anymore. My god, girl what else do you need to see? A person like that is not capable of loving anyone. He is screwed up and if you stay with him, so are you.
Sincerely,
Del