Questions related to ‘Move In?’

Moved in too Fast

Thursday, September 10th, 2009
Dear Del,
hey ive been with my boy friend for five months and we already moved in with each other and im the only one who has a job i have to much on me we moved in to fast
Dear Christian,
Well, you  can tell him that unless he gets a job and shares rent, etc., you will move out .  Next time you’ll know better than to move in with someone without a job and knowing them only such a short time.
Sincerely,
Del

Unreliable

Monday, May 25th, 2009

Dear Del,

 

My boyfriend is out of state. I am planning on moving in with him next month. He promised he would call every day before I left. He rarely ever calls and he offers the promise that he will call me “tomorrow” EVERY time we talk and he NEVER does. EVERY TIME I talk to him he offers the promise that he will buy a phone & put minutes on it so he can talk to me and he still hasn’t. (he doesn’t have one & he uses other people’s phones when he calls me). He promises he will do things and he never does. DOES HE REALLY WANT ME OR WHAT DO YOU GET FROM THIS?

 

Dear Gia,

 

What I get from this is what you should get and that is that your boyfriend is very unreliable and irresponsible and you should NEVER move in with him - in fact you should get rid of him immediately!!!

 

Sincerely,

Del